Body Language is a very important topic to be learned if you want to grow in your life, as I have seen many people face this issue that they don't understand how to react in front of others and instead of their body being controlled by their mind they let their body control the mind which make things more awkward for them.
As people don't realize that what their body is doing when they are in a conversation,
1) I often see people folding hands while talking which make other people feel that you are not interested and you are showing closed body language which makes the other person uncomfortable.
2) SMILE is the biggest difference maker in a conversation because people take some time to trust people and they take time to open up but you can change that by just smiling and introducing yourself with a little bit of enthusiasm.
3) Physical contact can help in creating the change but you really need to understand what type of physical contact is good and what is not preferred as there is a thin line between being friendly and being a jerk which you really need to understand. Like a small hand shake and a small tap on the shoulder is fine but except that everything can make things awkward and bad.
4) For becoming a great speaker you first need to become a great listener so listen to what other person has to say and ask questions so they can get a confidence boost that you are giving importance to what they had to say.
5) Don't talk about Negative, Political and Religious stuff in a conversation because it can make things awkward and many people don't prefer these type of conversations.
6) moving your hand while talking can make some feel that you are confident in what you are saying but don't do it to much.
There are a lot of things which you need to understand while you are in a conversation because it can really make a lot of difference.
Smile is your biggest weapon use it in the right way and you can make things turn in your favor and can instantly make awkward conversations seems smooth like butter.
Always work on yourself and on your skills because only it will help you to grow more nothing else.🎔
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